Right on the Money

“My mother has been lonely for 35 years, but no longer since she has been Homesharing. The scheme in Oxford needs to be more widely publicised so that more people can benefit” Daughter of Householder. Shared Lives Plus Friends and Family Survey 2017

In Homeshare, two people who would not normally meet each other are helped to get to know each other and become housemates. Usually an older person who has a spare room and who wants a little help around the house or some companionship is matched with a younger person who is looking for somewhere affordable to live. When a good match is found, the younger person moves in and contributes to the bills but instead of paying rent, agrees to provide a little help with, for instance, household tasks which the older person is starting to find difficult. With funding from Lloyds Bank Foundation and the Big Lottery Fund, we are working with local Homeshare organisations and national partners including Age UK to bring Homeshare to many more people.

Although Homeshare does not attempt to provide personal care to its older participants, Homeshare is often thought of as a way for a ‘vulnerable’ older person to get support and as a way to tackle loneliness in later life.

In reality, it’s more complicated than that. Research by the Co-operative and the British Red Cross has identified that loneliness can affect people of all ages. For instance, the report identified that nearly a third of young new Mums experienced significant loneliness at a challenging time in their lives. North London Cares and South London Cares, which also brings younger and older people together, found that people in their early twenties were the second loneliest group, after older people. Anouck, coming to England from her native France to live for the first time, lived with Doreen and their Homeshare arranged by PossAbilities in Rochdale is featured on BBC’s Right on the Money on Wednesday 19th July. For Anouck, Homeshare with Doreen was about much more than accommodation; it was the ‘nest’ to return to each evening and a way to get involved in local activities, with Doreen who also got out and more involved in local life than she had in a life which had been very home-based as an unpaid carer to family members for many years.

doreen and anouck
Doreen and Anouck

Just as we can all experience loneliness at different times in our lives, we can all become ‘vulnerable’. The careful selection and safeguarding procedures of Homeshare organisations have been developed in recognition of the particular concerns many older people may have about house-sharing, but the model avoids applying a blanket ‘vulnerable’ label to everyone over 65, or assuming that no younger person ever feels vulnerable. This puts Homeshare organisations in an unusual place for a charity (but a very normal one for, say, a dating service or a commercial home-sharing service such as AirBnB), which is recognising that there can be risks in sharing a home, and enabling two people (and often, their families) to understand them and manage them, but not trying to take over: the participants ultimately decide whether to take part and with whom, and they develop their own version of the standard Homeshare agreement, and taking responsibility for it, with the local Homeshare organisation on hand if they run into difficulty.

This approach has a strong safety track record but also creates space for the only real cure for loneliness, which isn’t in the end a volunteer or even a befriending project (useful as those approaches can be): it’s a friend.

I love that I am helping my householder and knowing that I am having a positive impact on her happiness. I love the stories that she shares with me of her life and experiences.”.  Homesharer. Shared Lives Plus Householder and Homesharer Survey 2017

Panorama’s Castlebeck expose

I’m sure anyone who watched Panorama tonight would have been appalled at the systematic and violent abuse of adults within a Castlebeck facility supposedly offering care and rehabilitation for people with learning disabilities and complex needs. The Castlebeck ‘hospital’ (Winterbourne in Bristol) secretely filmed is a locked unit housing 24 adults in conditions in which there was nothing for them to do except wait for the next round of abuse from staff, which included assaults, cold fully clothed showers, water poured on people outside during Winter and constant threats and intimidation. Arrests have now been made. This ‘care’ cost the taxpayer around £3000 per patient per week. Inspectors, CQC, failed to intervene despite three allegations of abuse from a senior nurse and a recent conviction for a staff member caught abusing a patient. They have apologised and propose to carry out 150 unannounced hospital inspections. Ironically, Castlebeck boasts it is the winner of the HSJ/ Nursing Times Top 100 Healthcare Best Employers award 2010.

Deeply depressing. How many Winterbournes are out there amongst the remains of the UK’s long stay institutions? No form of care and support is immune from abuse, but the Castlebeck horror story illustrates the real risks in institutional care which is locked away from view and makes no attempt to value people as individuals or to help people aspire to ordinary, independent living. The perceived risks of support being led more by individuals themselves and of community-based support such as Shared Lives, should be balanced against the protection they offer from institutionalisation.

This shocking case also illustrates the need which is common across social care – for everyone to have an independent advocate to whom they can have access whenever they want and who will speak up for their rights come what may. Advocacy simply isn’t part of the current system and, at a time when care and support is supposedly being reformed to give people ever greater choice, the decreasing availability of support to make choices is a gaping wound in our sector.

Something that has left a really bad taste for me though, is not just the failures of the social care sector, but also the failures of the BBC team Continue reading